THE LOW OF FORGIVING (PART 1)

 "The Law of Forgiveness" and '' The Low of Apology''



             When we say we forgive someone, we feel more comforted than the person doing the forgiving. Think about it, if you hate someone and think about the wrong he did to you, do you have peace.. But if you practice forgiveness, you will feel that your life will be filled with peace..


 Do not forgive and approach again. Know how that person is and give him the appropriate distance.

- Forgive him and keep him away.

- Forgive and forget him.


 When you forgive someone, give it with meaning..

It means that after you have forgiven, if you remind the person of his mistakes again and hurt both of you, it is not your forgiveness. So forgive and don't remember those mistakes again. Forgive with meaning. That's why you are told not to forgive someone who made a mistake that you cannot forget. Because in such places the relationship between the two will not be a peaceful relationship after that.


 Don't talk about it after forgiving. Forgiveness is like sealing. You have to train your mind for this. Apologize and remove that chapter from your story entirely. Don't keep reminding yourself of that.


 Forgiveness is not the same as making everything the way it was before. To forgive means to release him by saying that you are not angry with him for his mistakes. After that release, you are not bound to be treated as you were before. So you have many options.

best option,

'Forgive.. give up.. forget..'

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